dress to feel sexy

Kate_waitress · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 11

Hi

I went to a rough time relationshipwise.
I am going on my first date in a long time – a sexy, smart, gorgeous guy but don’t think I am truly interested.
I want to feel sexy and feel that a great guy like this desires me.
Everyone tells me that I have a great body but I haven’t felt sexy or desired in a long time.

I want to dress sexy
I have two options in mind:
First, I am thinking of wearing pants similar to these:
http://www.hotfash.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5502
with this top
http://www.forplaycatalog.com/store/Clubwear___Tops227321?Args=
I just bought it. I know may be a little to much but I feel very sexy when I wear it (so far at home)

The other option is this dress
http://www.shopbop.com/neck-double-layer-dress-helmut/vp/v=1/845524441813080.htm?folderID=2534374302063657&fm=browse-category-viewall-shopbysize
I never wore it. My ex bought it for me – I hope he would hate it if other men like me in it.

What do you think?

K.

Guest · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 6:58 am Post subject:

You need wear an undershirt under the dress - I think the top is not appropriate for a date in public.

Guest · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:35 pm Post subject:

if you have nice legs go with the dress

pdav10 · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 26 Sep 2007 Posts: 188

I think the dress is good providing the weather is nice. You should wear them and take the pics though then we could see if they really suit you?

xx

Guest · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 5:23 pm Post subject:

sexy top but
two words: double sided tape

I don't like the dress

Sara

VanessaEvans · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 5:53 pm Post subject:

The dress, heals and some jewellery - nothing else. I can gaurantee that you'll feel great.

Vanessa

Kate_waitress · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 11

Sara: I know it is borderline but the possibility of “accidents” can be a turn-on (for both?) So am am not sure yet. Do you know a brand that I could wear and maybe remove later?

Vanessa: I thought about that - but I want to hear first what people think

FRITZ, J · Guest

GOING ON A DATE IN THAT DRESS?

YOUR HAVING A LAUGH, SURELY?

Gretchen · Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 10:13 am Post subject:

I would avoid the pants. Pants are not sexy- period. Men do not like them no matter what we think of them.

For the dress, you have to decide if you want to be flashing your top or not. If not, some two sided tape or an undershirt are in order. If you do, more power to you. Let us know what you decide and how it went.

dreyam · Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:20 pm Post subject:

Kate, I really think the top is... well, over-the-top (pun intended.) Looking and feeling sexy is one thing, looking like a hooker is something else entirely. Guys most certainly do like to see girls dressing sexy, but classy-sexy, not trampy, and I really think that top qualifies as the latter.

Joyofsox · Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 3:12 pm Post subject:

Dreyam is right about the top. Maybe keep it for home use only.
You can only wear your dress if you have the confidence all evening. Not confidence only after a few drinks, but from the start. You need to wear it as if you really mean it.
Get a close girlfriend to check you for VPL. It might be a serious problem with dress that clings like yours. If it is, then Vanessa is probably right about the only way to wear it. And if you rely on tape you are going to have to have a very restrained evening.
You will certainly be giving the occasional flash, but isn't that what a dress like this is for?

Kate_waitress · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 11

Thank everyone for their input

I am still not sure what to wear – some of you think my suggestions are completely inappropriate
Some say they look sexy and I should have fun. I want to have fun

I definitely won’t wear the pants – I have a pair that looks like this:
http://www.shopbop.com/eric-front-pleat-wide-leg/vp/v=1/845524441803019.htm?folderID=2534374302067313&fm=browse-category-viewall-shopbysize
I think that will look classier and be a contrast with the top – classy professional bottom, hot sexy top.

I also thought about wearing a black and white crop jacket over my white top.
It ends a little bit above my belly button and I show still some skin in front. In the back it comes low enough and I won’t show any skin. It has two buttons and even when unbuttoned it stays almost closed. (sorry have no picture)
This way I can vary the sexyness

I have a little time tomorrow so I’ll look around.

Joyofsox · Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 10:21 pm Post subject:

Kate, the most important thing is to be comfortable with what you wear.
Dress as risky as you want, but you will be a lot more sexy if you are at ease with the way you look.

Guest · Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 5:24 am Post subject:

you will look hottt !!!

azraelle · Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 7:11 am Post subject: