Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 4:16 pm Post subject: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 10:04 pm Post subject: Re: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
Fred75 wrote:
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
SO STOP TRYING!
Leave the manhood training to the men!
What is this? Women can chat to their sons and offer advice, how is this a threat to their manhood ?
Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 1:18 pm Post subject: Re: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
SO STOP TRYING!
Leave the manhood training to the men!
What is this? Women can chat to their sons and offer advice, how is this a threat to their manhood ?
Women have no clue as to how to raise a MAN.
Only men can do that.
Joined: 29 Apr 2005 Posts: 2878 Location: southern utah, usa
Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 2:15 pm Post subject:
So you're saying, Fred, that anyone with a penis that DOESN'T "gravitate towards brute competition" isn't really a MAN? You're so full of it it's a wonder why you aren't blowing turds. I was raised by my natural father and mother, thank you very much, and I DON'T!! Never have enjoyed so-called "brute competition", never will. And I'm as straight as you believe you are. Does that make me less of a MAN than you?
The question was asked in another thread as to why it is so hard to find a semi-decent man. One very plausible explanation would be the thinking and reasoning of MEN like you, Fred. Assuming you can call it "thinking" and "reasoning".
Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 2:48 pm Post subject: Re: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
Fred75 wrote:
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
SO STOP TRYING!
Leave the manhood training to the men!
What is this? Women can chat to their sons and offer advice, how is this a threat to their manhood ?
Women have no clue as to how to raise a MAN.
Only men can do that.
What are you talking about? I know loads of men who've been raised by their mothers and they are REAL men, not macho phoney issue ridden pigs
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:43 am Post subject: Re: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
SO STOP TRYING!
Leave the manhood training to the men!
What is this? Women can chat to their sons and offer advice, how is this a threat to their manhood ?
Women have no clue as to how to raise a MAN.
Only men can do that.
What are you talking about? I know loads of men who've been raised by their mothers and they are REAL men, not macho phoney issue ridden pigs
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:28 pm Post subject: Re: Are You Training Him (son) To Be a Man?
Fred75 wrote:
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
marby wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
Are You Training Him To Be a Man?
Get this irrefutable truth engrained into your mind and heart as expediently as possible. A woman cannot train a boy to be a man any more than a man can train a girl to become a virtuous woman. A man has his limits when it comes to raising and training girls.
He can read a thousand books and attend countless lectures, but he will never be able to fully understand or explain to a girl what PMS is, a woman’s hormones or what to expect when she gets pregnant. Most men won’t even attempt to broach subjects such as a woman’s broad range of emotions and feelings, her weight or looks, tampons or why women break out and cry at certain events and situations. It takes a woman to talk to a girl about those critical facets of her life.
In the same token, as a woman, there is only so much that you can instill in or teach a boy. Accept that fact and do not try to cross your boundaries. There are certain things that boys need psychologically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally, that you as a woman will never be able to impart to them. You will never understand or be able to help your son understand:
* Masculinity
* Testosterones
* The male ego
* A man’s penis
* Why men are territorial
* Why men love a good battle
* A man’s need to conquer
* A boy’s rites of passage
Like most females, you will spend an eternity scratching your head trying to understand why men gravitate towards brute competition. Since you will never comprehend these masculine things, you will never be able to properly communicate them to any male. Including your son!
SO STOP TRYING!
Leave the manhood training to the men!
What is this? Women can chat to their sons and offer advice, how is this a threat to their manhood ?
Women have no clue as to how to raise a MAN.
Only men can do that.
What are you talking about? I know loads of men who've been raised by their mothers and they are REAL men, not macho phoney issue ridden pigs
Does G&P fall into that category?
My definition of a real man, is someone who takes responsibilty for his actions and doesnt run away like a coward.
Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 28594 Location: Kentucky , USA
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:59 pm Post subject:
You should have met my ex step-dad Freddie, he was the man's man . A army lifer who was a Master Sergeant and fought all over. His nickname was Mad Dog .He tryed raising a 'real man' with his oldest son .
There were the 3 of us and the babys along with his 3 kids from a earlier marriage . He didn't care about the girl Helen who was 6 -10 or her retarded little brother Paulie who was 4-8 .Only Patrick who was 9-13, a year younger then me .Patrick go taken out to kick soccer balls and footballs every day . Also karate lessons . Mad Dog wud play up to coachs to have them favor Patrick . Patrick got more then all of us put together and had first call on the one tv. He even got to hit us and his own brother and sister and we were forbiden to hit back . .My mom was allowed to hit everyone except him .
Since he was so selfish Patrick had no friends and lived in terror of upsetting his dad. Making him a bigger bully around the house until one day my sister and I stripped him and threw him out the front door . He was screaming fanatically .We chased him all around the block laffing .
He ended up going thru life totally selfish & with this blank look on his face and don't think likes women ................
Last edited by Lena on Thu Mar 20, 2008 1:00 pm; edited 2 times in total
Well, Lena, you had me until you started the sado-sexual stuff of stripping Patrick and exposing him to the world. You might try thinking of him as a victim, too, of his father’s brutality.
But, I think you make a good point, anyway. Step-Dad's are not all that they are cracked up to be. They do tend to fill a lot of slots of the guys who rape or molest the daughters (and sons) of their new-found wives. Let us say, at best, the relationship is problematical.
Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 28594 Location: Kentucky , USA
Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 9:33 am Post subject:
Cambridge wrote:
Well, Lena, you had me until you started the sado-sexual stuff of stripping Patrick and exposing him to the world. You might try thinking of him as a victim, too, of his father’s brutality.
But, I think you make a good point, anyway. Step-Dad's are not all that they are cracked up to be. They do tend to fill a lot of slots of the guys who rape or molest the daughters (and sons) of their new-found wives. Let us say, at best, the relationship is problematical.
I was 12, we also had enough of that little prick bullying us and walking around like he was the king of the planet .
Well, Lena, you had me until you started the sado-sexual stuff of stripping Patrick and exposing him to the world. You might try thinking of him as a victim, too, of his father’s brutality.
You got that right! +100 from all of us.
Poor Lena... fails to look in the mirror when she writes.
Lena, do you not realize your the poster child for all the wrong thing mothers do to their children?
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