1. Do You Poison Your Son’s Mind Against His Biological Fat

Fred75 · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 04 Oct 2007 Posts: 7852

1. Do You Poison Your Son’s Mind Against His Biological Father?
Some women knowingly and intentionally perform this evil scheme. Others do it unintentionally. While boys are young, this vengeful act seems harmless, but as they grow older, they develop bitterness against their fathers. This root of bitterness, (See Hebrews 12:15 and Romans 3:14) will manifest itself in other areas of these boy’s lives. They play out their parental distress by becoming overtly rebellious, joining gangs, committing crimes and engaging in other self-destructive activities such as domestic violence and homosexuality.

As Founder and CEO of Mastering Manhood, I constantly meet men who were turned against their biological father by their moms. I have listened to men tell how they thought about killing their dads or wanting to hurt him just to get even for being abandoned. In many cases, their dads did not abandon them. Some of these mothers refused to allow the child to interact with his father as a way to punish the boy’s father. These mothers were being plain evil by fueling poisonous lies of child abandonment.

If you are a single mother, don’t speak offensively about your child’s father to your child. Even if it is true! You may be angry at him for not marrying you or for breaking up with you, or for whatever reason. But you must understand; by poisoning your child against his dad, you are accomplishing two damnable feats. You are embedding:

* A spirit of discord into your child’s heart
* a spirit of hatred and malice into your child’s heart

Fred75 · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 04 Oct 2007 Posts: 7852

Guest · Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 3:00 pm Post subject:

no, his father left when he was one and said he wasn't going to pay a godamn penny.

franfran · Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 3:11 pm Post subject:

So Fred, when I read this thread in conjunction with one of your other threads ([url]http://femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=185444&sid=99b27c092a7ebd8ba3e72c76ec64ae99[/url)] I am left wondering. If a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, are you saying that she has to tell the child what a wonderful person the rapist was?

franfran · Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject:

franfran · Posted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 12:34 am Post subject:

Must be the way the URL is breaking over two lines.... One last try, and if this doesn't work you'll have to copy and paste it if you want to see the thread I'm referring to.

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Ivan Diederhoff

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9240

Anyone who knows about "mastering manhood" doesn't quote the bible when talking about it. Rolling Eyes

Some CEO!

Ivan Diederhoff · Posted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 11:13 pm Post subject:

I was reading some of the stuff on that web site, and while there were some good points made, I found myself disagreeing more than agreeing. I think Fred is only using that site to try and back up his claims when he denounces homosexuality and liberalism.

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9240

Ivan Diederhoff · Posted: Mon Sep 08, 2008 12:00 am Post subject:

Captain · Posted: Mon Sep 08, 2008 3:28 am Post subject:

I actually DO agree with this.
I don't think it is right for a parent to negatively influence the feelings a kid has about the other parent, nor to interfere with the relationship.
A lot of parents seem to think that just because they hate the father/mother the kid should too and that is not fair. If the other parent really is that much of an idiot the kid will surely come to that conclusion themselves eventually and that is how it should be. Also bad boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife does not = bad parent so it's unfair to poison a kid against their dad (or mum) if they cheated etc because that doesn't reflect their parenting, just their partnering.