Differnt sex drives

Sam 23 · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 14 Jan 2005 Posts: 19

different sex drives-i find it fustrating that my girl always wants to go to bed when i am rearing to go. it makes me mad-and thats not good cause if she is tired thats it, it just seems like something always gets in the way of us having sex lately...its making me crazy! we used to do it all the time. its been weeks! ug-i feel like jumping random people. yikes ! its not helping that our shifts are in total opisites. i work afternoons she is on days-sometimes i work weekends-ug the life of a social worker

lapin · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 03 Dec 2004 Posts: 130

This can be difficult to cope with. It's a case of MAKING time at a suitable time. It's not easy... Carefull planning of when you can have quality time together, along with infinite patience (it won't work every time, so must avoid getting stressed about it) should see you through.

I know, easier said than done.... but it IS worth the effort.

Lapin.

LoopyLaura · Posted: Tue Jan 25, 2005 9:41 pm Post subject:

Hey,
I have posted i post like yours on a different forum. I asked what men's sex drives where like in general. I asked what made a difference, they some said work! I don't know if you have thought of this one, but now i've thought bout it it makes sense. We both work different shifts (i'm a nurse and he's a fitter). Make time 4 each other and talk to your girlfriend about it if you can.
Hope you manage to sort things out as i know they can cause i lot of tension and upset.

Good luck Smile