help for a virgin

[Adrianna]

I've noticed that most of the posts lately have either been quite serious or the usual calls for friendship. That's all well and good, but we needn't be serious all the time...

Here is my question for you ladies. You see, i am a virgin. All i know about sex is from reading Cosmo with friends (not much help for a les) and my own natural instincts. So i was hoping that, now that i have a gf (who will read this! ), i would like to educate myself. What are your favorite sex positions? Or if not positions, what places? Anything special you like to use? Educate me, ladies!

[suicidal elf]

Sex ... is almost.. all on instinct i think. Anything that feels good.. feels right... thats all you need to know. and with ur new gf, if she's up for sex, and if you're ready to commit, I'm Very sure that she'll help you explore all the doors that are to explore though *smiles* good luck!

[Exodus]

I gotta say this being a guy... Cosmo sucks. Plain and simple. I used to read those magazines just to see why girls were the way they were, and that magazine said it very clear to me. They make it out to be like women should be prissy diva's, like every women is some prize that should be constantly praised, and they make it out like guys don't know what they are doing. I lost hope in that magazine when I read this one article that was something like "Ways to keep your guy interested". One of the tips it mentioned was similar to this: "When you go out, wear your sexiest attire, and make sure your man notices you flirting with other men and have him notice them checking you out, this will make the relationship closer". Now how the hell does that make a relationship closer!!! It says to flirt with others, and make sure he see's them checking you out?! That will lead you jealousy and fights!

Anyways... My point to all this... Don't listen to Cosmo on everything. Cosmo says many things that will only work for some people. You just have to go with what makes you comfortable, and what happens with going with the flow.