Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:48 am Post subject: Scorpio man V Aries women
Hi all, I'm a scorpio man with an aries woman. trust, honour and loyalty no matter what and understanding that looking for perfection just gets in the way of life. It does not exist, never has. Here is a great thought from a grandmother in the film parenthood. ' Relationships can be like a merry-go-round, round and round you go' nice and safe nothing wrong with that for others. 'Or like a roller coaster up and down, round and round making you scream and shout with fear and joy, great fun for some. Our relationship has been the roller coaster and I would not change it for anything, thats what's made our relationship what it is today after nearly thirty years!
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 8:52 pm Post subject: Re: Scorpio man V Aries women
PeterParker wrote:
Hi all, I'm a scorpio man with an aries woman. trust, honour and loyalty no matter what and understanding that looking for perfection just gets in the way of life. It does not exist, never has. Here is a great thought from a grandmother in the film parenthood. ' Relationships can be like a merry-go-round, round and round you go' nice and safe nothing wrong with that for others. 'Or like a roller coaster up and down, round and round making you scream and shout with fear and joy, great fun for some. Our relationship has been the roller coaster and I would not change it for anything, thats what's made our relationship what it is today after nearly thirty years!
30 years? Wow. That's beautiful. You gave a great example of the experience.
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:07 am Post subject: Re: Aries and Scorpio Relationship
ZiaAries wrote:
arlamb wrote:
Hello! I am an Aries female, and I am dating a Scorpio male. We've been together for 2 years and we are going through the exact problem! Neither of us want to change, because neither of us feel we are in the wrong.
Coming from an Aries point of view, we are usually pretty quick to forgive and forget, so I'm not sure exactly what you said to her, but whatever it was, probably hurt her feelings pretty badly if she's still not talking to you. As mean as we can be, we are very easily hurt.
So here's my suggestion: If you want a quick fix, remember, Aries women live in a fantasy world. We love knights in shining armor and romantic scenes that end in sappy music. If you hurt her, sweep her off her feet, don't get mushy, and make sure you mean it, but do something with style that will make us blush and forget all about the problem. I tell my boyfriend constantly, if I'm upset, and I'm just pouting, you'll be able to solve the situation with a hug and a kiss and some baby talk rather than arguing or getting pissed yourself.
If you want to fix the problem in the long haul, I suggest sitting down, (once everyone has calmed down) and talking things out. Get down to the core of the problems. Usually, with Aries women, the core of the problems come down to respect. Which might seem simple to some, but respect comes in all sorts of forms to an Aries. We feel "disrespected" if you embarrass us in public, forget to call us when you're out, and even when you don't pay a bill on time. Anytime you mess up, we feel it's a personal attack on us, not because we're selfish, but because love is equal sharing to us, and we're trying our hardest to please you, so you should do the same for us.
I hope this helped, I'm sorry us Aries are crazy, but just show her you love her. Don't "give her space," because we'll take it the wrong way. As soon as yall are in a fight, fix it then, and she'll forget it about it by the next morning after the make up sex. I love you Scorpio men, never a dull moment!
I've never read a more accurate post as to the way I see things. NO, I didn't write it either but I wish I knew who did.
ditto I am an Aries women, although I never fought with my Scorpio man at the time, If only my Libra man now would do the above, it is so simple to keep an Aries women happy... but most people have to make it all complicated
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: Re: aries and SCORPIO MAN
nadiaAries wrote:
Guys! I am an Aries woman and in love with the Scrpio man for last 2 years,the same thing and i am facing the same situation .Just 3 days back we took up this stupid argument ;we were watching a movie and he sleapt thru it ;i got upset becuse i wanted him to watch this mvie with me . In the fury I swictched off the tv and wnt into the bedroom fuming ,we had a silly argument ,but still he got up and switched on the TV and watched the whole movie without talking to me and since then he did not call me ,I tried call and he responded but then same Aries ego"Why should I call" and its the 4th day today neither he has called and nor am i calling but I am dying to talk to him and hug him and nearly 20 times in day i check my phone ,I am just thinking "What must be his state of mind ,Is he also missing me or is it just ok with him " He loves me a lot and I know that but we both are very egoistic . Can any body help!
If you really love him? then one of you has to be the bigger person and call a truce, he might want you to say "no baby don't leave" to stroke his male ego.. as Aries we are very strong and can intimidate some men.. men need to feel loved and wanted to, they are very ego driven...
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:18 am Post subject: Re: aries and SCORPIO MAN
nadiaAries wrote:
Guys! I am an Aries woman and in love with the Scrpio man for last 2 years,the same thing and i am facing the same situation .Just 3 days back we took up this stupid argument ;we were watching a movie and he sleapt thru it ;i got upset becuse i wanted him to watch this mvie with me . In the fury I swictched off the tv and wnt into the bedroom fuming ,we had a silly argument ,but still he got up and switched on the TV and watched the whole movie without talking to me and since then he did not call me ,I tried call and he responded but then same Aries ego"Why should I call" and its the 4th day today neither he has called and nor am i calling but I am dying to talk to him and hug him and nearly 20 times in day i check my phone ,I am just thinking "What must be his state of mind ,Is he also missing me or is it just ok with him " He loves me a lot and I know that but we both are very egoistic . Can any body help!
no offence but taking it personally because he fell asleep during a film is a prime example of one of the things you shouldn't get upset about... watch the film stroke his hair while he sleeps, I'm sure ppl don't fall asleep on purpose during films... if you got upset about this trivial unimportant thing, maybe you should think about what is really causing the problem..how many other trivial unimportant things do you ride his balls about?? maybe that is why he is not speaking to you?? you have to decide what is worth fighting about... and trivial things are not worth losing someone over... people are going to have quirks and they do not do these things to annoy you it is just who they are, you have to either decide can you love them for who they are or not... I have never understood people who get upset about toilet seats, and toothpaste.. when there are so much more important things to worry about than triviality...
i am an aries woman married to a scorpio guy, i can tell you it's not pretty. there are days when you are just so fed up with the arguing coz both parties wont back down.
the thing that bothers me the most is scorpio's secretive nature. i hate secrets. better he shares them with me than me finding out in some form or another. i don't know about other aries girls but it bothers me a lot. my trust for that person slowly fades coz of secrets. and when they are busted, they deny it too which is so infuriating! they wont say sorry, they'll pretend it didnt happen.
advice for that i think is: take time to talk to each other, aries women can be forgiving if honesty and sincerity is in play.
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