Guy wants to bed my wife

[Guest]

Hey Andy, maybe the blokes just doing it as a wind up.

Good looking young guys love the challenge of trying to chat-up an older married women. If they bed them great, if not its fun trying.

Maybe you should try just having a joke with him.

I assume your wife is a real looker then

Well I think so. She's tall, long blonde hair, 35 yrs old.

Anyhow we do allow each other some freedom. About once a fortnight she goes clubbing with the girls till very late and another night, I go out with the lads. We never quiz each other, I've never done anything and I hope she hasn't.
So for the moment, I'm going to stay cool on this one.

Andy

[Guest]

:shock: Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?

Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!

Andy

[sarahbabe02]

:shock: Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?

Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!


Andy

Andy - if the guys as tasty as superstuds avatar, then I'd worry. I'd bed him, but then I suppose I'm single.

[take it]

Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.

My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! Just for a one off he says, and I think he means it.
Looks wise he’s everything I’m not. I’m 37, got a bit of a gut, not a great body and balding fast. He’s very good looking, full head of hair, athletic body, almost always shirtless even in all this wet weather here in the UK. And young too, only 22. My wife’s lovely, most men fancy here, but as far as I know she’s never cheated on me. I asked her what he thought of him, and she said she wouldn’t kick him out of bed. Only joking, I’m sure, but I don’t know what to do. If it did happen it wouldn’t be the end of our marriage, we have kids and I couldn’t hurt them.
At the moment I’m playing it cool.

Andy

truth is that you want him to bed your wife....you get off on the thought that you are powerless to stop him....just another cuckold fantasy....

[Exodus]

:shock: Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?

Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!

Andy

Don't know about you, but who actually lets someone say this about their girlfriend/wife when you don't even know them...? If I were in your position, my response would've been "the hell you will if you still want to walk". Get some balls man and speak up.

[jinjin]

:shock: Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?

Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!

Andy

He is so arrogant and rude. If a female interior decorator said something like this to me about my hubby, I would give her a piece of my mind and if I felt that was not enough, I would complain to her boss.

[Guest]

:shock: Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?

Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!

Andy

He is so arrogant and rude. If a female interior decorator said something like this to me about my hubby, I would get her a piece of my mind and if I felt that was not enough, I would complain to her boss.

It perhaps wasn't as cold as it sounds. The guy was more cheeky than arrogant or rude. Had he been ugly, I would have just laughed. It's just that he is very good looking, and my wife clearly fancies him.

Andy

[elliott20]

I don't know, that kind of crap is just disrespectful. I would have fired him on the spot and for thinking he could get away with that sort of talk.

[Rem Bran]

Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.

My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! Just for a one off he says, and I think he means it.
Looks wise he’s everything I’m not. I’m 37, got a bit of a gut, not a great body and balding fast. He’s very good looking, full head of hair, athletic body, almost always shirtless even in all this wet weather here in the UK. And young too, only 22. My wife’s lovely, most men fancy here, but as far as I know she’s never cheated on me. I asked her what he thought of him, and she said she wouldn’t kick him out of bed. Only joking, I’m sure, but I don’t know what to do. If it did happen it wouldn’t be the end of our marriage, we have kids and I couldn’t hurt them.
At the moment I’m playing it cool.

Andy

can i do her first lol

[Rem Bran]

Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.

My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! Just for a one off he says, and I think he means it.
Looks wise he’s everything I’m not. I’m 37, got a bit of a gut, not a great body and balding fast. He’s very good looking, full head of hair, athletic body, almost always shirtless even in all this wet weather here in the UK. And young too, only 22. My wife’s lovely, most men fancy here, but as far as I know she’s never cheated on me. I asked her what he thought of him, and she said she wouldn’t kick him out of bed. Only joking, I’m sure, but I don’t know what to do. If it did happen it wouldn’t be the end of our marriage, we have kids and I couldn’t hurt them.
At the moment I’m playing it cool.

Andy

can i do her first lol

[noodles]

Dont understand what your problem is. Sack him or ignore him? You've already said if she did it wont ruin your marriage, so wht are you worried about?

[Guest]

pimp your hore wife out and make some cash.

[Guest]

Latest thing is that the guy has invited both of us to a party on Saturday night.
My wife's keen to go and we have babysitters, but I don't know. Don't I could stand seeing him trying to chat her up all night.

Maybe best to just let her go on her own and trust her

Andy

[Mr B]

Latest thing is that the guy has invited both of us to a party on Saturday night.
My wife's keen to go and we have babysitters, but I don't know. Don't I could stand seeing him trying to chat her up all night.

Maybe best to just let her go on her own and trust her

Andy

That would be insane. And if she went without you she's clearly up for it. Why would she go without you?

[THAT_GUEST]

If this is for real, then you handle a contractor by making him redo a lot of work. You take him around the job and point out a ton of S*** you feel is done incorrectly, and that you will not pay for shoddy work. Report him to the Building and Safety people in charge of contractor licenses, let them occupy him. Get inspectors out and order them to find fault, and make this f*****s life miserable. He will be so tied up in legal red tape, he will want away from you and your home really quickly. While you do all this, find out his physical address, and send a bill for materials squandered. Hit assholes like this where it counts. He is a building contractor, therefore, money is the be all and end all for him. You hit him hard enough in the bank book, he will lose interest in the wife! In the meantime, you might also try sabotaging some of his work, and pointing out the "poor quality of workmanship" he is giving to justify firing his ass, and giving all kinds of bad word of mouth around town. Let him work harder to get his next job by answering allegations of wrongdoing and unethical behavior.