This is something both of you are going to have to confront im afraid its time to pluck up the courage and actually communicate with him about his short Cummings (pardon the pun).
Firstly it’s not his fault but you have to make him see that you are not satisfied with the effort he is putting in.
Secondly there are a few techniques he should be able to do to put in for a mammoth performance.
1) Try the masturbation method get him to come an hour or half an hour before making love although not the best method if you want on the spot passion it can work I find this a makes me a little less likely to put a full effort into love making if im trying a second time round though (it's never as good as the first time round)
2) long term method when he masturbates just b4 he comes and he has to be right on the edge get him to squeeze the end of his penis to and think of something boring to get his penis to go soft and then start W**nking again. if he does this three of for times every time he wanks off he should get better control over his ejaculation but it does put a lot of time onto have a quick W*** best to do this for a few weeks to get some good results.
3) Try drink I always find drink gives me a massive boost to the old chap he can go on for hours and if you’re both drunk it makes you both share the fun.
4) Drugs I have never used medication for a problem of this type so im not the best to talk about them but like most things there are risks attached.
The point is it is going to take some effort from both of you to get over this problem and it will never be fixed over night.
Matt
