Open marriage, open mind

[Guest]

Can a man separate love from sex? Apart from complete honesty, is there a consideration I overlooked?

Many can. It might be best if he go to call girls so you know that none of these other girls have an agenda of stealing him away. These girls can get attached too, and start making demands of him.

Can you give him blowjobs or handjobs instead of sex on some days? As his wife it is sort of your duty to keep your man serviced, but at least you are honest and consciencious about your sex lives and looking for ways of making everybody happy.

You are the perfect wife!! Girls - listen to this woman and take notes.

It is NO ONES '' duty ''.You should forget that one RIGHT AWAY because IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT.

[Guest]

Can a man separate love from sex? Apart from complete honesty, is there a consideration I overlooked?

Many can. It might be best if he go to call girls so you know that none of these other girls have an agenda of stealing him away. These girls can get attached too, and start making demands of him.

Can you give him blowjobs or handjobs instead of sex on some days? As his wife it is sort of your duty to keep your man serviced, but at least you are honest and consciencious about your sex lives and looking for ways of making everybody happy.

You are the perfect wife!! Girls - listen to this woman and take notes.

It is NO ONES '' duty ''.You should forget that one RIGHT AWAY because IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT.

Sure it is. It is every wife's duty to keep her man serviced, and it is every husband's duty to keep his wife serviced. They are married so they depend on one another for sex. The original poster seems to realize this and that's why she's trying to help her hubby to find other means for being satisfied since she can't handle servicing him as much as he needs it.

She understands that a marriage is a total commitment to one another. They are joined as one (he is hers and she is his).

What, did you think marriage was just a financial contract? - how convenient for the women.

[Guest]

Can a man separate love from sex? Apart from complete honesty, is there a consideration I overlooked?

Many can. It might be best if he go to call girls so you know that none of these other girls have an agenda of stealing him away. These girls can get attached too, and start making demands of him.

Can you give him blowjobs or handjobs instead of sex on some days? As his wife it is sort of your duty to keep your man serviced, but at least you are honest and consciencious about your sex lives and looking for ways of making everybody happy.

You are the perfect wife!! Girls - listen to this woman and take notes.

It is NO ONES '' duty ''.You should forget that one RIGHT AWAY because IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT.

A different guest.

It doesn't work like you'd like it too either. Cutting off sex in a marriage is like losing an eye for a carpenter. The structure might survive, but there will be lots of pain.

[Guest]

Can a man separate love from sex? Apart from complete honesty, is there a consideration I overlooked?

Many can. It might be best if he go to call girls so you know that none of these other girls have an agenda of stealing him away. These girls can get attached too, and start making demands of him.

Can you give him blowjobs or handjobs instead of sex on some days? As his wife it is sort of your duty to keep your man serviced, but at least you are honest and consciencious about your sex lives and looking for ways of making everybody happy.

You are the perfect wife!! Girls - listen to this woman and take notes.

It is NO ONES '' duty ''.You should forget that one RIGHT AWAY because IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT.

A different guest.

It doesn't work like you'd like it too either. Cutting off sex in a marriage is like losing an eye for a carpenter. The structure might survive, but there will be lots of pain.

Like i'd like to ? It's not ''like i'd like it'',it is a simple fact.
If a man sees it as his wifes duty to have sex whenever he wants it,she won't like the psychology behind that.I can assure you.You can either listen or ignore.After all,it is your marriage that has gone to sh*t!

Why does your marriage not work ? Because you are too ignorant to look at your errors.The house-old Man vs Woman,Woman vs Man will get you nowhere.If you want a change in your marriage,you have to listen to eachother.Both genders accusing the other of certain behaviours,and not DOING anything about it,is unproductive and a waste,
but like i said,it isn't me who has these problems,so maybe you should listen to someone who manages these things fine.

[Guest]

Which i know won't happen because you are vain,stubborn and proud.
Wonder why your marriage doesn't work ?

[Guest]

Which i know won't happen because you are vain,stubborn and proud.
Wonder why your marriage doesn't work ?

Yeah, I'd like to hear what your husband has to say about that.

[HtY]

I can only say that Open has talked more sense than almost all of the responses. If you feel comfortable working your marriage like this then go for it, but I do think that there are alternatives, like he could slow down a bit and you could have times when you really go for it and wear him out - I've yet to come across a woman who can't wear her man out if she decides that's what she wants to do!

[Guest]

Which i know won't happen because you are vain,stubborn and proud.
Wonder why your marriage doesn't work ?

Yeah, I'd like to hear what your husband has to say about that.

You mean his wife.

[Guest]

I can only say that Open has talked more sense than almost all of the responses. If you feel comfortable working your marriage like this then go for it, but I do think that there are alternatives, like he could slow down a bit and you could have times when you really go for it and wear him out - I've yet to come across a woman who can't wear her man out if she decides that's what she wants to do!

Duh.