It’s not discrimination if you see everyone equally. If BAG said she’d sleep with ANY man, black, white, small dicked or not, so long as she found them attractive then she would not be discriminating. But I’ve spoken with BAG in detail about this subject, and I know her views. She doesn’t see black men, and men with small dicks in the same light that she sees other possible mates. Im not attracted to fat chicks, but I dont look at fat chicks in the same light that BAG looks at black men and men with small dicks. So regardless of her having an attraction or not, she would never see those types of people in the same regards as others. Thus she is being discriminatory.
then if that is case and because the person is black or has a small dick the person is automatically viewed to be inferior (or not on the same playing field) in any way, shape or form ...to a white man or man with a bigger penis and because of that starts on a lower playing field ..or not even in the playing field then yes that is discrimination
Amnesia wrote:
BTW Mr A.... Im quite impressed with your ability. I think I'll recruit you to handle my petty arguments with the little people I don't want to waste my time on
thanks lol
but what would happen if i didn't want to waste my time on them either : P
...or i went the opposite way and agreed with them instead of you.
you might then have a real challengeing debate on your hands
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Kingston, Jamaica
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 12:14 am Post subject:
Hi all, allow me to introduce myself. I am an old (54) black Jamaican man and I have been fascinated by this chat.
I began by looking at the pictures posted, to a closer look at one quite attractive looking young woman (BAG) and ran into a number of threads of amusing . (chat).
I confess that I was initially perplexed as to why so many people were so unkind to her and her seeming ability to take it on the chin and politely reply. Please note, I said initially .......
I further confess that I am not offended when strangers express the opinion, either directly or, in this case, indirectly, that because of my colour I am not worthy of consideration (there are too many others who have met me and are of similar opinion), like all males (of my acquaintance) my entreaties are rejected more often than not, I accept this as my lot in life.
Let us be clear, we all discriminate. If we did not then choice would be redundant, so it is not a bad thing, it serves to help us to separate the wheat from the chaff.
Bigotry on the other hand is distasteful, it is hateful, it creates unnecessary pain, it is ugly. I believe that any time a person is inclined to begin a sentence with the word all, stop .... reconsider for inevitably what follows is bound to be nonsense.
Finally, most of us have been influenced into seeing physically attractive persons (however you define that) as superior beings both physically and intellectually, it never fails to disappoint when we take the "lid off" to find that inside is vacant.
Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: East Europe
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 1:04 am Post subject:
tucuma wrote:
it never fails to disappoint when we take the "lid off" to find that inside is vacant.
Ooo, I just LOVE the implication (and unofficial reference) in this statement . Im gonna reserve commenting though since I sort of agreed to step down and let other people handle this topic.
But welcome to the forum tucuma. As for BAG... she's pretty cool as long as she's talking about things other than politics and sex.
Hi all, allow me to introduce myself. I am an old (54) black Jamaican man and I have been fascinated by this chat.
I began by looking at the pictures posted, to a closer look at one quite attractive looking young woman (BAG) and ran into a number of threads of amusing . (chat).
I confess that I was initially perplexed as to why so many people were so unkind to her and her seeming ability to take it on the chin and politely reply. Please note, I said initially .......
I further confess that I am not offended when strangers express the opinion, either directly or, in this case, indirectly, that because of my colour I am not worthy of consideration (there are too many others who have met me and are of similar opinion), like all males (of my acquaintance) my entreaties are rejected more often than not, I accept this as my lot in life.
Let us be clear, we all discriminate. If we did not then choice would be redundant, so it is not a bad thing, it serves to help us to separate the wheat from the chaff.
Bigotry on the other hand is distasteful, it is hateful, it creates unnecessary pain, it is ugly. I believe that any time a person is inclined to begin a sentence with the word all, stop .... reconsider for inevitably what follows is bound to be nonsense.
Finally, most of us have been influenced into seeing physically attractive persons (however you define that) as superior beings both physically and intellectually, it never fails to disappoint when we take the "lid off" to find that inside is vacant.
I am not fooled by you at all
you are not a 54 year old jamaican man who suddenly felt compelled to post, you are a troll/sh1t stirrer who noticed this thread but found he was unable to post here under the guise of guest ...so went so far as to make a brand new account just for the occasion.
I can tell by your very first line you are not who you claim to be ..and don't even get me started on the rest of it
I can't speak for everyone else but I for one will not be paying any attention to the opinions/viewpoint you express on the matter.
I can't be arsed to waste my time and give serious replies to someone (whatever thier opinion) when i know they're being fake and just getting involved to amuse themselves like you are.
by all means continue to play around or whatever if thats how you get your kicks ..whatever floats your boat ..just don't expect me to reply anything that comes out of your mouth
Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: East Europe
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 2:25 pm Post subject:
Mr A wrote:
I am not fooled by you at all
you are not a 54 year old jamaican man who suddenly felt compelled to post, you are a troll/sh1t stirrer who noticed this thread but found he was unable to post here under the guise of guest ...so went so far as to make a brand new account just for the occasion.
I can tell by your very first line you are not who you claim to be ..and don't even get me started on the rest of it
I can't speak for everyone else but I for one will not be paying any attention to the opinions/viewpoint you express on the matter.
I can't be arsed to waste my time and give serious replies to someone (whatever thier opinion) when i know they're being fake and just getting involved to amuse themselves like you are.
by all means continue to play around or whatever if thats how you get your kicks ..whatever floats your boat ..just don't expect me to reply anything that comes out of your mouth
I am not fooled by you at all
you are not a 54 year old jamaican man who suddenly felt compelled to post, you are a troll/sh1t stirrer who noticed this thread but found he was unable to post here under the guise of guest ...so went so far as to make a brand new account just for the occasion.
I can tell by your very first line you are not who you claim to be ..and don't even get me started on the rest of it
I can't speak for everyone else but I for one will not be paying any attention to the opinions/viewpoint you express on the matter.
I can't be arsed to waste my time and give serious replies to someone (whatever thier opinion) when i know they're being fake and just getting involved to amuse themselves like you are.
by all means continue to play around or whatever if thats how you get your kicks ..whatever floats your boat ..just don't expect me to reply anything that comes out of your mouth
k thx bye
Damn! He's really a troll? That b*****!
yep afraid so ..and compared to other forums i visit the breed of trolls found here at FF are quite a bit more sophisticated in coming accross as genuine i've noticed.
tucuma isn't who he claims to be ..he just started posting in here for his own amusement
I'm going to say my final two cents on this subject and then move on.
Mr A, I don't mean to disapoint you or frustrate you, but you didn't answer my question posed to Amnesia. "If its not a matter of right or wrong, why ELSE would you call me out for not wanting to have sex with a black man or a small dicked man, therefore making me discriminitory, according to your views?"
That was a very long post that you wrote, and you had some good stuff, but really, you reaffirmed what I've believed all this time: that Amnesia is/was going after me because i am in the "wrong" to discriminate. "If its NO a matter of right or worng, what IS it." You didn't tell me what "it" is.
Now, that new member that you called a troll actualy made a very good point that I never thought of: we all discriminate in one way or another. With that said, you can put what i'm about to say all over FF if your heart pleases: I discriminate against certain people when it comes to sex, and I discriminate because some people just aren't sexually attractive enough for me. I DO NOT believe that that is wrong. I believe that that is freedom of choice.
Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: East Europe
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:22 pm Post subject:
Blond Adult Girl wrote:
That was a very long post that you wrote, and you had some good stuff, but really, you reaffirmed what I've believed all this time: that Amnesia is/was going after me because i am in the "wrong" to discriminate. "If its NO a matter of right or worng, what IS it." You didn't tell me what "it" is.
See what I mean... BAG will never get any explanation. She believes only what she wants to believe, regardless of what anyone else tells her. Thus I no longer waste my time trying to explain things to her because it goes right through her.
BAG, just keep on believing whatever you want to believe.
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 17121 Location: aiyeeee....dat good pie!
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:20 pm Post subject:
Going with Tucuma's post, and the theme of this thread, I would like to pose a question. As a white male, I find his post very well informed and intelligent. Amnesia, let's say we're walking on the street girl watching and a group of women are approaching. One is a black female. She has a weight problem, and her skin is marred with pimples and scarring. She has a slight amount of facial hair in the form of a visible mustache and a few coarse chin hairs. Just a few but noticeable. Girl 2 appears to be of mid east descent. Olive skinned, dark brown eyes, no makeup of any kind, and she isn't smiling or showing any type of good natured extroverted signs. She is very quiet and defensive in posture. Girl 3 is of Asian descent. Her hair appears dirty, unwashed. Her face is acne scarred, and her teeth are badly crooked and miusaligned. Her body isn't overweight, but she is rather flat chested and she seems more soft and wiggly and than toned and buff. Girl 4 is a caucasisn, she has flawless skin, she is laughing, smiling and talkative. Her hair flows in the breeze, and she has a modesrt bust, nice tan, and her legs seem firm...not necessarily buff, but no flab, wiggle or cellulite. She does have bad teeth, she has poor grammar and speaking ability, and smokes like a chimney. Her right eye is crossed. Which of these ladies, as a white male, would you be more inclined to choose? All have their flaws, noticeably, and each is from a different ethnic group. I'm betting you would choose the caucasian female. You would weigh each for their appearance and body language, but I think you would go with her for the simple reason that physically, she is the lesser of the evils, and I think she would fall within your normal "type" for lack of a better word. We all have a comfort zone, and thus Tucuma is right, we all discriminate at some level. I don't think that makes us outright bigots though. That would mean we hate an entire group or race of people for no reason than where they are from or the color of their skin. That is downright wrong. The thing is, we don't know where Blondie is demographically, to see the choices she has to make, nor she for us.
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Kingston, Jamaica
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:49 pm Post subject:
LMAO
So Mr. A ... I am not who I say I am and you know this because? .... don't answer ... I know, someone died and appointed you god.
May I suggest you either deal with issues (or not, your choice) but leave the god business to those better qualified. You failed and with such vitriol as well. ouch.
BTW people, apart from a character in fairy tales ... what is a troll? you got me there.
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