Sexual peak

[30 ish]

I've heard it said that some women hit their sexual peak at or around 30. I'm 29 i'll be 30 this summer and my sex drive has just really picked up. I'm not sure if it's my hormones changing or if it's my relationship with my bf. We've known eachother since Oct 03 and were just friends for 2 months until we started dating in Dec. We went out on a couple dates but never did anything more than make out until christmas night. He's a driver so he wasn't in town much between Oct and Dec. He's always been a gentleman to me and he has never pushed himself on me in anyway like some men would. Our first date was going out to a club we had a great time.We played pool and darts and i had a few drinks he didn't as he was driving, anyhow he had me feeling pretty good by the time our date ended he took me home and never tried to push anything even though I was a bit drunk. He's been a gentleman all along. He told me he fell in love with me from the first date. My question here is, is the feeling that we share a deep love and i feel i can let go of my inhibitions and be free with him and that's what has pushed my sexdrive into over drive or is it the almost 30 thing? He makes me feel comfortable with my body he says he loves it and it's beautiful. We send spicy emails back and forth to each other sometimes when we can't be together and sometimes talk sexy _ to eachother. I've been out on the road with him a few times and he totally takes care of my every need no matter what it is.30 We've had some problems in our relationship that has caused us to break up a couple times but we always seem to find our way back to eachother everytime. Sorry i got off the question but i thought you might better understand if I explained it to you. I've got a relationship with him that's new to me in a sense because i've never felt this way about anyone and i was married before and with my ex husband for 8 yrs but somehow this is very different. If anyone has any ideas about this let me know ok ....

[Fatlisa]

I think you have found someone who is right for you and you have just clicked with him. Sounds like you have all the right chemistry and are in the early stages of a relationship, so that is probably why your sex drive has picked up. Something new and exciting does tend to do that.

[Sal]

I'm 39 and I've found that sex is way better later in life. I'm not in a steady relationship right now but when I am in one I want it more than I used to and I enjoy it more than I used to in my 20s. I think the reason for that is that it takes women a lot longer than men to become sexually aware and fully comfortable with their bodies. We're made to feel that, as women, we have to repress our sexuality. The men are supposed to be the aggressors and we're supposed to sit back and be demure and hold them at bay. Men are studs if they have a lot of sexual partners and women are sluts. It's not until we're older and more secure with ourselves that we can begin to ignore the negative connotation that is put on sexually confident women.

and that, in my opinion, is why it's said that women hit their sexual peak later in life than men