can someone please reply i really need help

worried34 · Guest

i had Anal sex while i was on my period. it was when i was bleeding. the first time my boyfriend did not use a condom and the sperm leaked out. we were doing it doggy style but when the sperm came out he cleaned it with a papertowel. than the second time we used a condom but it broke and i had to go to the bathroom and clean it up. can u please help me because i do not know if i am pregnant. please someone help me. please please

guimei · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 2:33 am Post subject:

The likelihood of you being pregnant is really low! about 1 in a million. I'm not saying it is totally impossible, stranger things have happened, but unless he actually came inside you (not your bum by the way), you are probably not pregnant. even if his cum did touch the entrance the possibility of one getting all the way inside and finding an egg,whilst you were on your period is also pretty far fetched. If you are still worried about it, wait until your period is due, because a pregnancy test doesn't work until about two or three days after your period would normally come. Just be aware, next time you want to have Anal sex, use a condom and a lot of lube, it reduces the likelihood of it breaking. Or better yet, it's it was less than three days ago go take the morning after pill.

worried34 · Guest

Exodus · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 2:49 am Post subject:

As far as I know, I don't think it is possible for you to become pregnant on your period. Technically the uterus is in the process of shedding its layer for a new one. So even if the cum somehow managed to get inside, it would have nothing to latch onto. As I said, I don't know 100%. In therory you shouldn't be.

If you are really worried though, you could wait two weeks and buy a test. By then it would show.

worried34 · Guest

Guest · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 3:44 am Post subject:

It is absolutely possible to get pregnant while on your period. The sperm can survive a while inside the woman's body, long enough in some cases to be around to fertilize the next time a woman ovulates.

However, it is not possible to get pregnant from Anal sex...

Guest · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 4:14 am Post subject:

guimei · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 5:37 am Post subject:

Not many people out there know that much about the female reproductive system huh? Confused

Yes you can get pregnant whilst on your period, yes you can get pregnant if the cum only touches the entrance of the Vagina. What I tried to tell you before was that it is HIGHLY unlikely. Don't believe the myths that the blood will push the cum out, i.e. don't be tempted to try it. When a man ejaculates the sperm is fired out pretty fast, which gets the sperm on their way, but don't forget that they SWIM.
I realise that it may now be too late to get the morning after pill, but I seriously don't think there's anything to worry about. I have had similar experiences, and there is no baby! But just in case you are worried, the only thing you can do is wait to see if your next period arrives on time, if it doesn't take a test. Although don't freak out if it's late, when you are stressed it can throw off your cycle. And as I said before, if you want to carry on having Anal sex, use a condom and lube, remember, your bottom is designed as an exit only hole, so you have to help it along. You can even get some Durex condoms that are already lubed. Hope that clears up those questions. If you have any more, I'll be around for the next four or five hours
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Guest · Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 6:08 am Post subject:

pootermonkey · Guest

Considering you are on your period, and the ejaculate came from in your rectum possibly, and it got only a little on just the outside of the vulva, not to mention whether or not the condom had spermicide in it's lube, I would say it is a 1 in 287,453,212 probability that you are pregnant.

Have you taken a pregnancy test?

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Here are a couple of things that I thought of that might help you. I am playing it seriously here too, so please actually consider them. I know some people would think I'm just trying to be weird, but I'm not.

Next time make sure he cums deep inside you so that it will stay in there, then just leave it in there so that it absorbs naturally overnight. It definitely won't hurt you, and your body absorbs it rather quickly. That way you won't have to worry about what could happen when you push it out. Besides, many women like to leave it in because they find it sexier or kinkier. Some women say it reminds them of their lover still being inside them.

There's one more thing I thought of that might help though it may sound strange, but it's just an idea. This depends on how naturally hairy you are. If you happen to have a lot of perianal hair (the ring of hair that grows around your anus), if it is thick and you and your boyfriend aren't turned off by it, don't trim it or shave it. And don't trim or shave your pubic hair either. That way if semen does start to run from the anus it will probably get caught in the hair and not ever make it anywhere close to your vagina.

Hope this helps.

HtY · Guest

Worried,

You are probably not pregnant. In fact it would be really amazing if you were, but you will only be completely sure when you have your next period.

The fact that you have had a scare is probably a very good thing because you will now be much more careful at times when you could possibley get pregnant.

A few facts. Sperm up your bum, in your hair or your ear or in your mouth will not make you pregnant. The sperm has to meet an egg in a nice warm and safe place (your womb) to get you pregnant. But sperm are pretty determined things and will keep going if they think there's any chance of getting there, so sperm around your vagina particularly at the mid point betwen your periods can be dangerous, and the closer the sperm is to the egg when it starts its journey the greater the chance of getting pregnant.

So, if you are having sex frequently consider going on the pill, this means you are much safer than just using, and forgetting to use, a condom. Don't gamble with "safe" times, there is no completely safe time, don't gamble with withdrawing before your b/f cums, he will almost certainly have left some of the little buggers (the most energetic ones) inside you.

On the health front don't let any of your b/fs body fluids get into your body particularly anus and vagina until you are sure he is not HIV positive. If you are trying a few boys then make sure all of then use condoms all the time wherever they are entering you. Don't use old condoms or dodgy ones.

OK lecture over, I think you will be fine, you're obviously having fun and that's great. Sex is amazing and sex with the right person is really wonderful so do enjoy it as much and for as long as you can.

Exodus · Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 1:48 am Post subject:

Geez, we have people here that are being direct and telling her the GOOD chances that she isn't pregnant, and others saying out of no where that she is with all these reasons. Yes, it is possible to become pregnant this way, but it isn't like the guy just shot his load right into her or directly into her vagina. As she said, it just leaked onto it. If it was caught and the cum didn't even enter, then there is like a 1 in a billion chance she actually got pregnant. The fact she is on her period, DOES make it a better chance that she ISN'T pregnant. Its like i said before, he didn't cum directly inside her or directly onto her vagina, it just leaked onto. This isn't rocket science people... She should have nothing to worry about. Hell, if she is that worried over this, she should take a pregnancy test in the morning in about 2 weeks. However, she will see that nothing is wrong.

jimbo7774 · Guest

there is no way to get knocked up in the asss sex. Wrong hole-Girl- Unless you can produce a baby trurd.

MarriedMom · Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2004 4:22 am Post subject:

Ok, I'm gonna say this, and it will probably piss you off, but someone needs to say it. If you have no f***ing clue how the reproductive system works, you have no business getting a dick stuck in you. Get educated, because anyone that says something along the lines of "do you not get pregnant during your period because the blood pushes it out?" obviously has no clue. You have got to be way too young to be sexually active if you are asking silly questions like this. I hope for your sake, you're not pregnant, even though it IS highly unlikely in your case. Jimbo, that baby turd thing is killing me LMFAO.

MM

Exodus · Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2004 7:44 pm Post subject:

I agree with you. If people don't know how these things work they shouldn't be having sex. However, this has to be said. No one is saying that it is a 100% guarentee that "the blood pushes the cum out". We were saying that it does lower the chances, but it isn't at all safe. As I mentioned, as did she, the guy didn't shoot directly onto her or inside her.