Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 14347 Location: Boston, MA USA
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 5:39 am Post subject:
. wrote:
mostirreverent wrote:
i was almost with you until you said those who want to are lost. did Jesus put you up to this...
I am an atheist.
I was using "lost" in the colloquial sense, everybody knows someone who is "lost", for instance a crackhead who steals and lies to support a habit and is in deep denial, you know what I mean.
I'm not making a judgement aganist such people, I don't believe they "deserve" to suffer, but I do hope and wish that they will overcome their condition somehow.
O.K.
I am bit sensitive to the religious right and there telling me what to or not to do with my penis.
I wonder if there are people in porn that enjoy the art form
Joined: 08 Dec 2004 Posts: 109 Location: Long Island
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 2:42 pm Post subject: What Married Mom said...
is Very true.
Every Woman (usually) wants to feel like SHE is "the one" who does "it" for you.
And personally this is something that I PERSONALLY am very aware of.
If possible, it's GREAT to (in some way) always re-affirm your "fixation" on your lover.
It's very difficult to be true to your own emotions (including your own sensuality) if you're WISHING your lover were someone else.
So...
IF all the porn films you try to share with a woman include OTHER women who bear NO resemblance to your own woman... You're gonna make your woman wonder if THOSE women are what you're attracted to.
IF (however) you DO watch flicks that feature "real" women who are less than socially idealized models of womanly beauty, (or if they HAPPEN to resemble your lover) you may actually make your wife feel better about herself.
As it happens, I MYself have always ALWAYS been attracted to "REAL" women!
I happen to Love a woman with some MEAT on her bones.
(I happen to love WIDE hips as well)
I absolutely LOVE watching a woman just Lose her Effing Mind sexually speaking. I find it -THE- most hot, sexy, attractive thing in the world. Some of MY favorite porn includes footage of a Woman who is older, and not exactly in perfect physical condition, but ... her major redeeming qualities are that she was so SO sexual! In the video this woman is a sheer font of sex! I'm reasonably sure she's NOT faking it (you never know she COULD be a good actor but...) there are 'things' you watch for like the WAY certain muscles in her body contract, and the 'connectedness' of erotic emotions with her bodies movement. There're just WAYs (I think) when you can SEE that the individual(s) involved are truly turned on.
It's always good to find video's that are like that.
flicks that are SO sensual...
They just make YOU want to be that sexy.
But, whether your lady is 160lbs or a very shapely & sexy 230lbs
(dunno how many stone that is)
I've personally always enjoyed the sensual pleasures of a more "hefty" woman.
(I'm not excluding the slim girls here, I'm just saying the "thicker" women are most definitely INVITED to join the party!!!!!!!!!!!!)
So, just be aware of how YOUR lady may compare herself to the females in the flick. (just as YOU would compare YOURself to the males in a flick SHE picks.)
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 4:42 pm Post subject: Re: maybe she has a conscience?
saltyC wrote:
Woman wrote:
saltyC wrote:
Anyone who knows people who sell sex and are sensitive know what it does to them: destroys their humanity.
Do you know any ?
Yes. Not hard where I live.
Have been one too.
I see
(Are you male or female ? I was thinking male at first but i'm not quite sure).
I think many of the things you say are true and sometimes that stands against my interest in porn.I am a lusty person and have watched as much porn as a man,porn that is directed towards men,too.At the moment i am quite sickened by many aspects of it.I was watching Asian porn.The men having sex with the girls were ugly guys and the girls were clearly not into it,just in it for the money.The men did not care,as long as they could ejaculate on the girls face.
In many films i can tell that the girls are definately faking it.It is an industry widely based on illusions.I find it sad that people,men,often can't tell fake from real.I think that also says a lot.
Joined: 14 Dec 2004 Posts: 3 Location: New Orleans, USA
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 11:25 pm Post subject: sickened by porn
I think the habit is easier to kick when the lies are exposed.
It is not a fantasy, it uses real people. Those people are from the most disenfranchised populations, and generally separated from "normal" society through a system of stigmatization and humiliation.
Myths about wh*res are not demolished by porn, quite the contrary. They are central to the stimulation in it.
I'm glad you are having doubts, I wish more poeple who care about social justice will too.
Believe me when I say that any so-called "porn" film made with women in mind will not be very arousing to men. Men want hardcore action with lots of closeups and not too many male body parts shown. As a matter of fact in the best porn movies you don't see much of the guy at all...the camera focuses only on the woman and her body parts. Also, good porn is usually a little rough,with multiple women servicing one man, something women don't like. The soft fuzzy photography of these women's porn movies is a turn off too. Men want bright, crystal clear visuals.
Believe me when I say that any so-called "porn" film made with women in mind will not be very arousing to men. Men want hardcore action with lots of closeups and not too many male body parts shown. As a matter of fact in the best porn movies you don't see much of the guy at all...the camera focuses only on the woman and her body parts. Also, good porn is usually a little rough,with multiple women servicing one man, something women don't like. The soft fuzzy photography of these women's porn movies is a turn off too. Men want bright, crystal clear visuals.
Maybe. It depends on whether you're watching it with her. In that case I tend to be watching her rather than some silly movie.
Hey Guest-------You are one of the lucky ones, I can't even get an erection, much less have an orgasm with my wife unless there is a good porn movie running on the DVD in the bedroomand and she hates porn. Count your blessings man.
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