I am ugly

[Sylvia]

Everyone is considered ugly by some and beautiful by others. One thing I will tell you is, you will never get a man unless you start changing the way you see yourself. If you see yourself as ugly then men will see you that way, too.

[Mog]

Everyone is considered ugly by some and beautiful by others. One thing I will tell you is, you will never get a man unless you start changing the way you see yourself. If you see yourself as ugly then men will see you that way, too.

No offence Sylvia, but as someone who is quite attractive, you could never understand the point of view from someone who is not.

I know I am ugly. I've spent my whole life being reminded of the fact. Please don't assume this is resulting from an abusive relationship or similar situation, because it's not. I've had strangers offer me this information, and at one time a man even stopped his car to tell me.

It's very easy to say that we're all going to have hang ups about our appearance when you have one that is generally accepted by people around you. People on this board might say that it's whats inside by counts, but don't you think you have to be initally attracted to a person physically before you will approch them?

At 24, I've not had a boyfriend either, unless you count a man who was twice my age, and strung me along like the desperate fool I allowed to him to make me. I've now accepted that I'll never meet anyone. Society now a days is too shallow, and ironically, so I am. I go out, and see "ugly" men, and wouldn't want to date them because of how they look. Because of my feelings on this subject, I know that others will feel the same way about me

[Sylvia]

No offence Sylvia, but as someone who is quite attractive, you could never understand the point of view from someone who is not.

I know I am ugly. I've spent my whole life being reminded of the fact.

And I have spent my whole life being called all sorts of things, racist names and yes, ugly and my features criticized. I grew up in a certain type of community and believe me, I did not think of myself as attractive from what I heard whispered and also called out from cars sometimes.

But I have self confidence and I do not care what anyone says about me. I have been fairly successful and I have a great man and before that yes I had boyfriends, but I never allowed anyone to tell me how to feel about myself.

Even if you are not considered attractive by most, you will be attractive to someone. Be yourself, stay strong in your own heart and mind, don't be a victim and you will find that person. Good luck to you.

[Lauren Hauger]

You can never be as ugly as me.
I am very fat -98 pounds at 5 feet tall
I have thick long red hair (I tried dying it black-bad idea)
I wear glasses-eyes not right for contacts
I have greenish blue eyes-too weird not pretty
so yeah, hun there are ugly people out there.
Just like me-
think I will play in traffic now

[Guest]

hehe

[Bazzie]

The only thing ugly about you is your lack of self confidence. I suffer from the same thing due to obesity.

Forget about your nose, show people your smile, show people that you can take whatever crap life throws at you and still make the corners of your mouth curl up and you'll do ok.

Please don't put your pic on a site like amiaminger, it's just going to attract idiots.

Don't you think it's rude to call someone ugly? I think it is. Why be rude to yourself?
Bazzie

[littlevegetarian]

You can never be as ugly as me.
I am very fat -98 pounds at 5 feet tall
I have thick long red hair (I tried dying it black-bad idea)
I wear glasses-eyes not right for contacts
I have greenish blue eyes-too weird not pretty
so yeah, hun there are ugly people out there.
Just like me-
think I will play in traffic now

If we stood next to each other, you'd be the beauty, i am extremely ugly

[me]

hey im just saying that there was about a 1 in 6 000 000 000 000 chance that you were born you no one can make you feel inferior without your permission. live as though you are the most beautiful one ever just think about it beauty is only temporary we will all end up crinkly and old and then dead life is too short get out there its inner beauty thats inportant and thats what anyone worth it should judge on. plz remember that approximately 400 people have died in the world while you were reading this think about what time you have waisted LIVE!! from extremely ugly on outside but kate moss on inside

[guest]

so much is to do with attitude. remember that marilyn monroe famously could walk down the street and not be recognised until she put on what she called 'her' - ie she wore her beautiful sexy wonderful MM persona like a coat, put on the attitude.

Then there's that spanish actess who was in Women on the edge of a Nervous Breakdown & other films - I think her name is Rosi de Palma. She should be called ugly - she has a huge nose, buck teeth, she can't hide because she's over 6ft tall.. but she's gorgeous! she dresses really glamerously,has great makeup - just thinks and acts beatuful and and sh'es amazing.

Anyway, a lot of men say that what is most sexy in a woman is their confidence. Do affirmations. Every time you see a mirror look at you self and say "I am the most amazing and wonderful woman out there". feels stupid at first but it does work At the moment you are doing the exact opposite, re-inforcing that you are ugly - so those are all the signals you are giving out to everyone.

I've got wonky teeth, big nose, blotchy skin, wierd hair. and Im nearly 50. 2 years ago I took myself in hand, changed my attitude. inthe last 18 months 4 differernt men have told me how beautiful i am. Not even my husband had said that for 12 years..... and even he has said it again....

[MO]

All my life i was called ugly by boys my age, but older men say that I am cute. Some that don't even know me look at me and ask me for my digits, but when they find out that i am only 12 they say i look like a young women. But the boys at school say i am ugly. WHAT SHOULD I DO? [/quote][/u]

[Lauren Hauger]

The boys are immature.
maybe some of them really like you.
Boys are crazy like that sometimes.
Now if old men and women smile at you-
that happens to me. Then maybe your so ugly your cute.
But, if its like 13 and up but under like 26 then yes, you must be darling and pretty. What do other girls at school think about you?
personaly Iam the uglist thing ever created-so dont worry

[Lauren Hauger]

The boys are immature.
maybe some of them really like you.
Boys are crazy like that sometimes.
Now if old men and women smile at you-
that happens to me. Then maybe your so ugly your cute.
But, if its like 13 and up but under like 26 then yes, you must be darling and pretty. What do other girls at school think about you?
cause the boys (most) are also in puberty. so there hormones create them to act weird. They don't know what they want yet. some even may still be in the 'cootie" stage. and that are girls are nasty.
Just think-when you get to junior high and high school-you will have them all over you. and then you will be posting a question on how to make them stop! have you reached puberty yet??
and what kinda clothes do ya wear?? do consider yourself fat as well?? You need some self confidnce!!
Try to smile more at them or something.
personaly Iam the uglist thing ever created-so dont worry

[girly]

Ok, I'll admit I just posted a topic about hating my feet (hehe) but I'm starting to put things into context...I can't believe us females stress so much over the way we look.

I mean, look at Davina McCall. She has a rather large, hooked nose, and yet she is beautiful. She has so much confidence which I envy her for, and a gorgeous husband (he really is yummy!)

I hate society for making us doubt ourselves so much. I'm not dissing anyone for worrying about the way they look, because I do it and I always will do it because I don't believe I'm anything special to look it. It's annoying because other girls seem to be effortlessly pretty, while I have small breasts, large feet, a flabby arse, thunder thighs, spot prone skin, bushy hair and terrible eyesight.

Hehe, ahh. At least my personality is dazzling.

[Guest]

Gees, some of you mentioned older men as the only men whom you have dated.
I am with someone 25 years older. I've often wondered if older men are more forgiving with looks or perhaps have learned to see beyond them.

At any rate, young guys my age never ask me out ever. And I consider myself quite attractive. So what gives?

And to all of you feeling bad about how you look, I get it...some days are good some bad.

[want BF]

i have both good and bad days. sometimes i look in the mirror and think.."WOW I look soo great today!" and somedays, i look in the mirror and think "I look like S***!". I'm 20 years old and guys my age never approach me even when I feel pretty. BUT older men find me attarctive no matter what I look like. Guys are soo weird! I some times doubt myself b/c of them! I know, its soo silly of me! But when they don't approach me even when I feel OK about myself I later think that maybe I am hideous! I still think I look OK. I don't care anymore. I only care about what I think now.
I don't know what others think of me and I can't control their thoughts. The only thing I can be sure of is what I think of myself. That I can control. If you think youre pretty then others will too. Be kind to yourself. You deserve the best!